The One

How do you know when somebody is the one? This is a question that I am sure a lot of people ask, well let me tell you that it does not involve soul mates. For most people in the world it is hard to have a lasting relationship, no matter how many people they date or how hard they work at the relationship.
That is because most people try and do things by their own understanding.

The only way to know if somebody is "the one" is by asking God to tell you. Yes it is true God is the ultimate matchmaker and wingman. He is better than any dating website and marriage counselor.
There are some people who might think that God is too busy to play matchmaker, but believe me He will help you with anything, because He cares for you and wants to be involved in every area of your life.

If you don't believe me just check out the story of Isaac and Rebekah in the Bible:
Genesis Chapter 24

Now just to be clear, even though a relationship is God ordained doesn't mean there won't be any problems. Any relationship and marriage takes work and commitment, you have to expect that there will be arguing and a variety of disagreements, thats part of a normal process of "becoming one". However, if you work through it and learn from the mistakes, by learning to listen to each other, and respect each other's individuality and opinions, then in the end it will make you a stronger couple.

Now back to the question, when God tells you that somebody is the one, He will show you signs that will lead you to know that he/she is "The One"; Because sometimes He will tell you about someone and you will not believe that it is possible for him/her to be "The One". The truth is God never gives you what you expect, He makes sure to surprise you! LOL!

I have asked God, "Who is the one for me?",  a while back; at first I couldn't believe the one He showed me could be "The One" for me... then He told me signs of different events that would take place, that would lead up to our communicating, developing a friendship, and to it's ultimate design.
The most awesome part is that, nearly every sign He told me has taken place, all the way up to her current hair color.

It doesn't happen the same for everyone, but to each according to how God deals/speaks to you, He'll
let you know in such a way that there can't be any doubt on your part. This is how you'll know when you've encountered "The One" for you; if you ask God He will make everything fall into place for you, then your just going to have to trust Him that it will happen.